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		<title>Find the voice to say &#8220;No&#8221;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently surveyed more than 600 Utah women and found that 60 percent say they take on more commitments than they can handle, and 68 percent reported they don&#8217;t say &#8220;no&#8221; when asked to do something they don&#8217;t want to do. There are so many demands on your time and energy that saying &#8220;no&#8221; is [...]]]></description>
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I recently surveyed more than 600 Utah women and found that 60 percent say they take on more commitments than they can handle, and 68 percent reported they don&#8217;t say &#8220;no&#8221; when asked to do something they don&#8217;t want to do. There are so many demands on your time and energy that saying &#8220;no&#8221; is crucial to your emotional well-being.</p>
<p><strong>Why is it hard to say &#8220;no&#8221;? </strong></p>
<p>In my therapy office and in my workshops I often hear women they don&#8217;t say &#8220;no&#8221; because:</p>
<blockquote><p>• &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to disappoint others.&#8221;<br />
• &#8220;I should be able to do it all.&#8221;<br />
• &#8220;I want to help.&#8221;<br />
• &#8220;If I say &#8216;no&#8217; I feel guilty.&#8221;<br />
• &#8220;I want to please others.&#8221;<br />
• &#8220;I feel pressured by others.&#8221;</p>
<h4>Click  <a href="http://studio5.ksl.com/?nid=54&amp;sid=9621048" target="_blank"><strong>HERE</strong></a> to read more about why &#8220;no&#8221; is important and for tips to help you say &#8220;no&#8221;</h4>
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